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11月22日 说话周总理与蒙哥马利谁更会说话？
1961年6月，英国退役陆军元帅蒙哥马利访问中国，在洛阳参观，由外交部工作人员陪同，在街上散步时，走到一个剧场，台上正在上演《穆桂英挂帅》，他听了剧情之后，连连摇头，说道：“这东西不好，怎么能让女人当元帅呢？”中方陪同人员说：“这是中国民间传奇，群众很喜欢看。”蒙哥利说道：“爱看女人当元帅的男人不是真正的男人，爱看女人担当元帅的女人不是真正的女人。”中方队员不服气：“我们主张男女平等，男同志能办到的，女同志也能办到。中国红军里就有很多女战士，现在解放军里面还有一位女将军。”蒙哥马利说：“我一向对红军、解放军很敬佩，但不知道解放军有女将军，这会有损解放军的荣誉。”中方人员针锋相对地说：“英国国王是女人，根据英国的政治体制女王是英国国家元首和全国武装部队总司令，这会不会也有损贵国军队的声誉？”周总理知道后，严肃的批评中方人员“你讲得太过分了，他有他的看法，何必去反驳他，求同存异，弄得人家无话可说，就算你胜利了？”周总理亲自审阅为蒙哥马力安排的文艺节目，发现又有《木兰从军》就是：“又是一个女元帅，不然他会以为我们故意气他。”他喜欢的杂技、口技。去换掉。蒙哥马力知道了这件事，体会到了总理的用心，延缓了他的怨气，使蒙哥马利挽回了面子，两人的关系以及两国友好关系同时得以加强。
弟子规（信）
凡出言 信为先 诈与妄 奚可焉
话说多 不如少 惟其是 勿佞巧
奸巧语 秽污词 市井气 切戒之
见未真 勿轻言 知未的 勿轻传
事非宜 勿轻诺 苟轻诺 进退错
凡道字 重且舒 勿急疾 勿模糊
彼说长 此说短 不关己 莫闲管
见人善 即思齐 纵去远 以渐跻
见人恶 即内省 有则改 无加警
唯德学 唯才艺 不如人 当自砺
若衣服 若饮食 不如人 勿生戚
闻过怒 闻誉乐 损友来 益友却
闻誉恐 闻过欣 直谅士 渐相亲
无心非 名为错 有心非 名为恶
过能改 归于无 倘掩饰 增一辜 11月10日 李雷和韩梅梅之歌一切从那本英语书开始的
那书中的男孩LiLei 身边的女孩名叫HanMeimei 还有JimLily和Lucy KiteLinTao和UncleWang 一只会说话的鹦鹉叫Polly他到处飞 好多年没有再一次翻开它 但那一段说的谁和谁 偶尔还能细细回味 书中他们的喜与悲 书外身后的是与非 还有隐隐约约和我 一起长大的小暧昧 后来听说LiLei和HanMeimei 谁也未能牵着谁的手 Lucy回国Lily去了上海 身边还有了那么多男朋友 Jim做了汽车公司经理 娶了中国太太衣食无忧 LiTao当了警察 UncleWang他去年退了休 有点遗憾LiLei和HanMeimei 谁也未能牵着谁的手 一样的是我们都有了个 当初不曾遥想的以后 还好Polly它还活着 就像我们当年的小美好 他永远都不会老 在心底不会飞走   还有一个链接地址，有空的去听听
10月20日 成长（二）70，80，90后，处事风格，思想观点截然不同，原因不在于代沟，而在于阅历。哪怕就是我们自己，对同一件事情看法，也会随着年龄改变而改变。对于很多问题，已经知道答案，但感情上还无法接受，所以还不愿意着手解决，其原因在于我们还没有认识到不解决问题引起的麻烦比解决问题引起的麻烦还麻烦，在处理过比麻烦还麻烦的麻烦以后，我就会主动解决麻烦以避免出更麻烦的麻烦。这就叫做“成长”。 9月27日 女儿特希望将来能有这么一个闺女。
飞机上，我跟父女坐一排。孩儿她爸，看着30出点儿头。女孩儿，长的挺机灵，看着也就一二年级。空姐发食品了，小女孩儿一拿到，非常高兴的打开吃，估计是饿坏了。 她爹：“你谢谢阿姨没？” 小姑娘很可爱的说：“谢谢阿姨” 她爹：“跟阿姨说，阿姨你真漂亮。” 小姑娘顿时语气变了：“阿姨，我爸说你真漂亮。我爸就喜欢你这类型的。” 她爹楞了一下，空姐乐了，说：“你问问爸爸是要牛肉饭还是鸡蛋面？” 小姑娘依然那腔调：“不用，他看见美女比吃饭强。” 她爹很尴尬的说：“牛肉饭吧。” 然后，空姐走了。这父女俩又说上了，可语气完全不是父女，而是那种特熟的哥们儿跟姐们儿逗贫的那种，小姑娘说话也特小大人儿。 她爹：“我刚才是那么说的嘛！” 小姑娘：“得啦，我还不知道你想什么啊！你能不这样嘛！我妈一不在，你就开始，你觉得你这样儿有劲吗？” 她爹脸儿都绿了：“吃你的！再废话我以后不带你出来！” 小姑娘：“哎呦，您趁早甭带我出来。我现在就觉得我跟这儿特多余。我说你也行了啊。你这样的能找着我妈你就知足吧。都说闺女是爸上辈子情人，我就奇了怪了，我上辈子怎么看上你了！” 9月25日 国庆60年大庆临近，能感觉在政府极力渲染的喜庆祥和的气氛中隐藏紧张的空气。所有通往北京的公路都设卡检查，百姓坐地铁要实行严格的安检，街上时常可见荷枪实弹的特警，餐厅商场到处都是带红袖标的联防队员。 俗话说没做亏心事，不怕鬼叫门，不知道共产党怕的是什么。其实怕也没有用。俗话还说善有善报，恶有恶报，不是不报。。。。 9月21日 迁怒爱屋及乌，一好百好。心里高兴，看什么都好，心里不痛快，看谁都想抽，屁大个事，就想发泄，要找出气筒，这样不对，不好。不以言举人，不以人废言 。一念清净，烈焰成池, 一念惊觉，船登彼岸，做起来很难，但也要做。本打算今晚写文章拍人的，后来一想，觉得人家也挺无辜的，算了，忍了，认了。
9月12日 九年今天又回学校看老师，毕业以后，我每年都会去，今年是第九年 |
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5月9日
下一次牛市的十二条投资法则
下一次牛市的十二条投资法则 zz from WSJ 中文网
我觉得里面好多话不光适用于投资，对生活，工作也有很指导意义。
1. Go global.
Most investors prefer to stick to their 'home' market. It's a mistake. America accounts for only a fifth of the world economy but a third of its share values. No one knows where the best or worst returns will be, so spread your bets across the board. And you already have an oversized bet on the U.S. economy:, because you likely live, work and own a home here.
2. Avoid big moves.
If you buy or sell heavily in one shot you're taking a needless risk. And waiting for the right moment to make your move is futile. You probably won't catch the bottom or the peak anyway. If a market trend has much further to run, then what's the rush? And if it doesn't … what's the rush?
3. Remember the market is just 'us.'
No wonder shares rose when everyone was buying, and fell when they were selling. That was the reason. And when everyone is trying to predict 'the market,' they are effectively chasing themselves through a hall of mirrors.
4. Don't get fooled, don't get tense… and don't get fooled by the wrong tense.
Wall Street is riddled with people who mistake the past perfect ('these shares have risen') with the present ('these shares are rising') or the future ('these shares will rise.'). Don't get suckered.
5. Pay no attention to TINA.
Sooner or later someone will urge you to buy shares, even at very high prices, because There Is No Alternative. It is a popular hustle at the peak of the market. There are always alternatives -- like holding more cash until valuations are more attractive.
6. Be truly diversified.
That means investing across a spread of different asset classes and strategies. As investors discovered last year, 'large cap value' and 'mid cap blend' funds don't offer diversification. They're just marketing gimmicks.
7. Treat forecasts with a grain of salt.
Most economists missed the recession, most strategists missed the crash, and most analysts are bullish just before a stock falls. Even the good experts are prone to group think, office politics, career risk - and hall of mirror syndrome (see point 3, above).
8. Never invest in what you don't understand.
Be happy to underperform a bull market. During the last boom, many investors were advised to go all-in on shares to get the biggest long-term gains. But the stock market has infinite risk tolerance and an infinite time horizon. Real people can't compete with market indices, and shouldn't try.
9. Ignore what everyone else is doing.
It's natural to want to 'join the crowd' and avoid being 'left behind.' Leave those instincts in eighth grade. When it comes to investing, do what's right for you and your family.
10. Be patient.
Investment opportunities are like buses. If you missed one, you don't have to chase it. Relax. If history is any guide, others will be along shortly.
11. Don't sit on the sidelines completely until it's too late.
You'll probably end up splurging at the last moment. If you are afraid to invest, do it early, little, and often.
12. And above all: Price matters.
After all, an investment is just a claim check on future cash flows, whether it be a company's profits, a bond's coupons or an annuity's income stream. By definition, shares in a solvent company are twice as good at half the price… and vice versa. It's amazing how many people get suckered into thinking it's the other way around.
Most investors prefer to stick to their 'home' market. It's a mistake. America accounts for only a fifth of the world economy but a third of its share values. No one knows where the best or worst returns will be, so spread your bets across the board. And you already have an oversized bet on the U.S. economy:, because you likely live, work and own a home here.
2. Avoid big moves.
If you buy or sell heavily in one shot you're taking a needless risk. And waiting for the right moment to make your move is futile. You probably won't catch the bottom or the peak anyway. If a market trend has much further to run, then what's the rush? And if it doesn't … what's the rush?
3. Remember the market is just 'us.'
No wonder shares rose when everyone was buying, and fell when they were selling. That was the reason. And when everyone is trying to predict 'the market,' they are effectively chasing themselves through a hall of mirrors.
4. Don't get fooled, don't get tense… and don't get fooled by the wrong tense.
Wall Street is riddled with people who mistake the past perfect ('these shares have risen') with the present ('these shares are rising') or the future ('these shares will rise.'). Don't get suckered.
5. Pay no attention to TINA.
Sooner or later someone will urge you to buy shares, even at very high prices, because There Is No Alternative. It is a popular hustle at the peak of the market. There are always alternatives -- like holding more cash until valuations are more attractive.
6. Be truly diversified.
That means investing across a spread of different asset classes and strategies. As investors discovered last year, 'large cap value' and 'mid cap blend' funds don't offer diversification. They're just marketing gimmicks.
7. Treat forecasts with a grain of salt.
Most economists missed the recession, most strategists missed the crash, and most analysts are bullish just before a stock falls. Even the good experts are prone to group think, office politics, career risk - and hall of mirror syndrome (see point 3, above).
8. Never invest in what you don't understand.
Be happy to underperform a bull market. During the last boom, many investors were advised to go all-in on shares to get the biggest long-term gains. But the stock market has infinite risk tolerance and an infinite time horizon. Real people can't compete with market indices, and shouldn't try.
9. Ignore what everyone else is doing.
It's natural to want to 'join the crowd' and avoid being 'left behind.' Leave those instincts in eighth grade. When it comes to investing, do what's right for you and your family.
10. Be patient.
Investment opportunities are like buses. If you missed one, you don't have to chase it. Relax. If history is any guide, others will be along shortly.
11. Don't sit on the sidelines completely until it's too late.
You'll probably end up splurging at the last moment. If you are afraid to invest, do it early, little, and often.
12. And above all: Price matters.
After all, an investment is just a claim check on future cash flows, whether it be a company's profits, a bond's coupons or an annuity's income stream. By definition, shares in a solvent company are twice as good at half the price… and vice versa. It's amazing how many people get suckered into thinking it's the other way around.
2月22日
真相
刚看了一集纪念建国60周年的电视剧，讲的国共合作和抗日战争的事。心理挺难过的，不仅仅是因为了死去的同胞。这些年各种版本的历史书也读了一些，知道教科书上的并不是历史的全部。历史是最好的老师，他能告诉我们对与错。但如果我们看到的历史不是真实的呢？接受历史与事实有时候需要莫大的勇气，无论是对国家，民族，还是个人，有很多时候我们做不到，于是选择了逃避，选择了遗忘，学会了阿Q的自我安慰，但是是梦总会醒，鲁迅说“人生最痛苦的事情，莫过于梦醒了无路可走”，这话真tmd精辟。
2月4日
无常
这两天潜心佛法，正在读圣严法师的《禅与悟》，受益良多，本打算今年等天暖和去趟台湾法鼓山，若是有缘，没准还能见上一面，没成想今早便看到了《圣严法师在台北圆寂》的新闻。世事无常啊。
在遗言中，圣严法师还说了临终偈语：“无事忙中老，空里有哭笑，本来没有我，生死皆可抛。”
1月18日
扯扯蛋
知识可以学，道理却只能悟。因为道理都很简单，全都是废话，谁都知道，谁都不信。
打小父母总跟我们说要“懂事”，磨破嘴皮子的把道理讲了一遍又一遍，但我们就是不懂，压根听不进去，等长大了明白了，也晚了。
小时候的事情长大了才明白。那长大了的事情呢？一般都是快死了才明白，不过这回这更惨，临走时候才发现还好多事情没干完，只好等投胎了。
没心没肺的人，从来没有明白过，傻呵呵活了一辈子，大多长寿，倒也不错，但难免别人欺负，万一被下个套，死都不知道怎么死的，得善终也不多。
所以，事儿吧，得提前想明白，该吃吃，该玩玩，想干的都干了，没啥惦记的了，末了，一发子弹，了却余生，没啥遗憾，多痛快！
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